PORTFOLIO
DIED IN LIFE!!
By: Lina Náder.
He was dreaming about parties, friends, trips, music, but he had to wake up because he was FACE to FACE with the death.
That morning he and his father woke up early and went to the airport because they had to go to Bogotá. The reason of this trip was that he was having a problem with his lip and his father, who is a doctor, decided to take him to Bogotá and visit a doctor that examined him and determined that he had a very serious problem. He had a very dangerous disease that was not so common at the age of fifteen. At that moment he thought about killing himself, because he couldn’t believe that notice, he was so sad and he did not know what to do.
The next day they came back to Barranquilla to the oncologist to ask him for another diagnosis, but all the exams showed the same, -He had a tumour in his right inferior maxilar-.His father took him to a laboratory to take a piece of the tumour and make some exams to know if it was benign or malignant.
Some days later the results were ready and they showed that the tumour was malignant, so he had cancer. (This type of cancer is known as “Sarcomas” that are cancers arising from cells found in the supporting tissues of the body such as bone, cartilage, fat, connective tissue, and muscle. This cancer is also very hard to treat, because it is very strong and is capable of spreading throughout the body by metastasis.)
There was no time to waste. He, his family and the doctors had to do something to save his life. So they started a treatment in Bogotá with chemotherapy and he went more or less every two weeks to take it. After some months the doctors examined him again but the results showed that he was worse, so they decided that he had to go to United States, because the treatments were better there.
The day before his trip to Miami all his friends and his family went to his house to wish him the best and to show him that we were with him, and that we(family, friends, partners, etc…) were sure thath he was going to be fine. He was so sad because he knew that he was so bad and so sick and he believed that he was going to die in Miami.
Once in the U.S. they went to a foundation that helps people that suffer from cancer, and they gave them all the information about doctors, hospitals, medicines, and treatments.
He started the treatments and the doctors decided that they had to operate on him, and took out the tumour. When they were operating on him they noticed that the tumour was bigger and also that he had another one. His family was so worried about the notice, because it proved that the treatments, sacrifices and efforts had not worked. But they continued with the medicaments and with the chemotherapies just to see what happened.
Two months later the doctors decided to do another surgery, to extract the tumours, he didn’t want them to do the surgery and he hoped to die while he was sleeping, because the post-operatory was going to be so difficult. When the doctors opened him they saw that they had to remove part of his ear, and made a lot of things to reconstruct it.
The post-operatory was very difficult because there were a lot of things that he couldn’t do by himself, like speak, eat, breath.
A month later they did an exam to see how it was doing and they found four tumours, so they told to his family that they didn’t want to do another surgery because the situation was getting worst and that the best for him could be return to Barranquilla. When they came back, he didn’t want anyone to watch him because he had lost and eye and also his ear. Another thing was that his face was so different now, because of the surgeries and the tumours.
The day of his seventeenth birthday he was so bad, everybody thought that he was going to die this day, and his parents didn’t know what to do. But he continued alive for more or less four months more, but in June he became so sick and he was saying good bye to everybody because he know that he was going to die, and on June 26th he felt so tired and he was falling sleep and he couldn’t speak and also it was very difficult for him to see the people around him, and he died.
Everybody was sad, because he was a very good friend, son, brother, cousin, person, but everybody knew that it was the best for him, because he was suffering a lot with that cancer.
EFFECTS OF: PALESTINIAN NATIONALISM.
The world has been outraged at the recent suicide attacks against Israeli from the terrorist group Hamas. It would appear that this was an unprovoked attack, but if we look at the history of this conflict; it may show a different face of this situation. The Palestinian nationalism has been existing since a long a lot of years. And it has been occurring because Israelites have been invading the Palestinian’s territory and the Palestinians consider their lands as “The Holy Land”. A lot of conflicts have occurred for this reason and also many people have dead. This problem may exist for a long time more, because anyone wants to give and if this situation continues we will see terrible attacks like the 9-11.
This is a conflict with no end, because each part thinks that has the reason, and also because there are other countries that are making some decisions that make things more difficult. These reasons make me want to know more about the causes of Palestinian nationalism and also about this conflict.
Some causes of this nationalism are:
Human rights in the occupied territories
There was a committee on the Exercise of the Inalienable Rights of the Palestinian People that monitored the situation in Israel and the occupied territories and found the following occurrences that were interfering with rights: the use of live ammunition and beatings against protestors;mistreatment of prisoners including the use of live ammunition, lethal use of tear gas;demolition of houses;restrictive economic measures;schools and Universities were closed bringing education to a halt .
In 1992, Israeli forces started a new form of punishment by destroying entire villages with heavy artillery fire. This exercise was carried out to catch a small number of fugitives, yet it left many Palestinian civilians homeless. And this attempts to the human’s rights. According to Tyndale, “Palestinian nationalism”
http://septemberhearts.com/thoughts/palestine-israel.htm by Kathy Tyndale16th December 2001
Us involvement in Israel
Despite the United Nations have made a lot of efforts to bring peace between Israel and the Palestinians, they have been blocked by the United States using its veto powers. With the formation of the Committee on the Exercise of the Inalienable Rights of the Palestinian People in 1975, the committee was asked to prepare a program, so the Palestinian people could exercise their rights. This program would mean the right for Palestinians to return to their homes and the right for national independence and sovereignty. The Security Council discussed the program, but a decision was unable to be reached because of the United States negative vote.
http://septemberhearts.com/thoughts/palestine-israel.htm by Kathy Tyndale16th December 2001
Statement from the US Department of State
"The United States has always enjoyed the closest cooperation with the Israeli Mission in New York. We have not hesitated to employ our veto in the Security Council when necessary to oppose resolutions that would be damaging to Israel or to the search for peace in the region. In the General Assembly, we have consistently voted against actions that stigmatize Israel and have strongly encouraged other UN members to do likewise. Despite our sustained efforts in this regard, we often find ourselves standing alone or with only a few others on these votes. We continue to assert our positions on these issues and seek ways to expand our ability to influence other delegations. " http://www.state.gov/www/policy_remarks/1999/990714_welch_un-israel.htm
Recently we have seen the United States veto another resolution that would have cleared the way for international monitors in the West Bank and Gaza. It is the second time in less than a year that Washington has vetoed a resolution that would have created a monitoring mechanism to protect Palestinian civilians "I just want to ask President Bush one question," chief Palestinian negotiator Saeb Erakat told CNN. "What if Texas, or any part of the United States, were to come under foreign occupation? Would you call upon the American people to surrender to this occupation? For God's sake, what should have been vetoed last night was Israeli occupation." http://www.cnn.com/2001/WORLD/meast/12/15/un.resolution/index.html
We are all the same, give them the same rights.
Nowadays, there is a topic that is causing a lot of controversy around the world, and that topic is the marriage between gays. And if someone asks us if we are in favor of equal rights for homosexuals, we will all say yes, gays should have the same rights, equal access to government benefits, and equal protection of the law. But when the question is about marriage, we stop all these beautiful words and we start to speak withwith in a rougherer language. More than half of all people in the world are opposed to gay marriage, even though three- fourths are supporting gay rights. I’m not gay, I’m heterosexual, but I’m in favor of the legalization of gay marriage, and with this essay I will try to convince the readers, and show that this isn’t a bad thing for the society., OnOnto the contrary,, it would have benefits.
“When most people refer to committed love, life-long partnership and marriage they think of the union between a man and a woman. After all, it does fall within the ‘"dream’" we embrace very young of finding a soul mate, buying a house, and raising a family. However, the debate is heating as to why this dream is reserved only for heterosexual couples. Homosexual men and women also fall in love. And once they find the man or women of their dreams they also desire to enter into life-long unions. These same-sex couples live together the same as heterosexual couples.”. (Jhonson).And that’s the real life. We have to accept it because gays are people.
(Jhonsonhttp://gaylife.about.com/cs/mentalhealth1/a/samesexmarriage.htm).
Another argument is rooted in semantics: marriage is the union of a man and a woman, and so cannot be extended to same-sex couples. They may live together and love one another, but cannot, on this argument, be “married”. But that is to dodge the real question—why not?—and to obscure the real nature of marriage, which is a binding commitment, at once legal, social and personal, between two people to take on special obligations to one another. If homosexuals want to make such marital commitments to one another, and to society, then why should they be prevented from doing so while other adults, equivalent in all other ways, are allowed to do so? (http://www.economist.com/opinion/displayStory.cfm?story_id=2459758)
I think that the prohibition of this marriage doesn’t make any sense, because gays are people as like us as heterosexuals are and they should have the same rights that we heterosexuals have, and also because they should be happy with their couple, without taking into account if they are of the same sex. And I can’t understand why there are lots of people opposing to this marriage if, “the values that gay couples exhibit in their daily lives are often indistinguishable from those of their straight neighbors. They're loyal to their mates, are monogamous, and devoted partners.
They value and participate in family life, are committed to making their neighborhoods and communities safer and better places to live, and honor and abide by the law. Many make valuable contributions to their communities, serving on school boards, volunteering in community charities, and trying to be good citizens. In doing so, they take full advantage of their relationship to make not only their own lives better, but those of their neighbors as wll.”(Bhttp://www.bidstrupp.com/marriage.htm).
Another reason that I find to legalize the gay marriage is that if gays have some stability, we would decrease the amounts of diseases such as aidsAIDS, because they would have one couple, and they won’t be onat the streets looking for anyone to have relations with, like some of them often do.
There are people opposed to gay marriage, saying that marriage is for procreation and ensuring the continuation of the species, but if they think so, why aren’t they opposed to the marriage of infertile couples?, and if marriage if just for procreating, then should a post-menopausal woman and an impotent man get divorced? OOor those couples that don’t like kids, couldn’t they marry because they won’t have procreatee?, I don’t think so., I believe that marriage is about love, and procreating is a secondary function.
Finally, I think that it is inappropriate for the government to meddle into our personal lives so greatly. Certain aspects of our lives should not be controlled, and this includes who we choose to fall in love with and marry. The job of the government is to provide us with protection and security, but never mediating our relationships. I don’t understand how the presidents of the countries expect to prevent hate crimes, and violence when they are teaching its people to hate homosexuality.
Sources.
JHONSON, Ramon. “Marriage Rights for Gays and Lesbians” <http://gaylife.about.com/cs/mentalhealth1/a/samesexmarriage.htm>
“The case for gay marriage.”. The Economist. FEBRUARY 26,th 2004. APRIL 21-2006. <http://www.economist.com/opinion/displayStory.cfm?story_id=2459758>
BIDSTRUP,Scott. “Gay Marriage: The Arguments and the Motives”
<http://www.bidstrup.com/marriage.htm>